When my kids were small they could not clap or dance on beat. It was not a huge concern for me but it baffled me because I didn’t recall having an issue with rhythm and their dad and I met on the dance floor.
Over the years however, after being involved in various types of dance including West African Dance that was heavily infused with drumming, they found their rhythm.
As individuals and as a family we have been in sync and out of sync, in rhythm and out of rhythm. Some days things just flow better than others and that is how life goes. When we catch a rhythm though, watch out world! There is no stopping us!
The short of it is, when we know what makes each ones heart sing then we can see them for who they are and love them where they are.
You do have rhythm. Even if you are dancing to your own beat.